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Should homosexual couples be able to adopt kids?

Some conservatives believe that homosexual couples are unfit to raise children. This position is frequently based on religious grounds, where homosexuality is considered a sin. They add that the homosexual lifestyle and mindset will rub off on the kids, eroding family values. The libertarian stance is that scientific evidence does not support the accusations of bad parenting, that the alternative for many children is living in orphanages, and that religious views should not permeate law.

Implications to Other Questions

Should gay and straight couples have the same legal benefits?
Should homosexual couples be able to adopt kids?

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Experts In Politics


Barack Obama    United States President
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...equality in relationship, family, and adoption rights is not some abstract principle; it’s about whether millions of LGBT Americans can finally live lives marked by dignity and freedom. That’s why we have to repeal laws like the Defense of Marriage Act. That’s why we have to eliminate discrimination against LGBT families. And that’s why we have to extend equal treatment in our family and adoption laws. I’ll be a president that stands up for American families – all of them.
01 Aug 2008    Source


Experts In Law


American Civil Liberties Union    (ACLU) Lobbyist
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One does not have to look too closely to realize that this legislation [to ban gay people from adopting] is about politics, not protecting children. Prohibiting lesbians and gay men who wish to become parents from doing so goes against decades of science and child welfare practice. Moreover, it does nothing to alleviate our current child welfare crisis. We need more permanent families for our foster children, not fewer.
13 Nov 2006    Source


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Experts In Homosexuality


A. Dean Byrd    Clinical Professor
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Studies demonstrate that there is, in fact, a difference between non-heterosexual and heterosexual parenting. Children raised by non-heterosexual parents are placed at risk. They are more apt to experience gender and sexual confusion; they are more apt to become promiscuous; they are at greater risk of losing a parent to AIDS, substance abuse or suicide. They suffer more depression and other emotional difficulties. They are also more likely to engage in same-sex behavior. ...
03 Sep 2008    Source


Experts In Christianity


The Catholic Church    Largest Christian Church
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We reaffirm the rights and dignity of all children. They should never be neglected and abandoned on the streets. They should be protected, especially when threatened by exploitation through prostitution, pornography, child-labor, drug trafficking, homosexual adoption and immoral "sex education".
24 Jan 2003    Source



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1 Point      OmnipotentRabbit      10 Apr 2010      Stance on Question: Agree
Homosexual couples are generally more stable than heterosexual ones, which guarantees a better environment for the child and whatnot. If anything, allowing them to adopt them would reduce the general number of orphans and result in a much better general situation. This is another one of the cases where supposed "moral standards which must be upheld" get in the way of progress.


0 Points      Radioactivity      10 Apr 2010      Stance on Question: Agree
Being gay is the last thing that should cause anyone to be viewed as an unfit parent. There is no "risk" or "danger" to a child adopted by a homosexual couple which exists inherently and exclusively due to that orientation.


-1 Point      j726      26 Jun 2009      Stance on Question: Disagree
gay couples should not adopt because they can use the kids for stuff that kids should not be around and a kid should always have a mom and a dad.... i have seen gays and they are a pretty nice people but they should not have kids.............


1 Point      Anonymous      28 Apr 2010      Stance on Question: Agree
my dads raised me and im fine im a great student and im graduating this year so get your facts straight and i think i would have not been as good with a mom :)



0 Points      wisted      25 May 2009      Stance on Question: Agree
Being straight does not automatically make you a better parent. Yes, I am straight.

I think the thing to focus on here is will that child have the rights that they are entitled to-go look at the UN Declaration (http://www.unhchr.ch/html/menu3/b/25.htm) some points that stand out:

"The child shall be protected from practices which may foster racial, religious and any other form of discrimination. He shall be brought up in a spirit of understanding, tolerance, friendship among peoples, peace and universal brotherhood, and in full consciousness that his energy and talents should be devoted to the service of his fellow men"

and also,

"The best interests of the child shall be the guiding principle of those responsible for his education and guidance; that responsibility lies in the first place with his parents."

Obviously (let me repeat: OBVIOUSLY) coming from a traditional mother/father/kids family does not mean you will automatically have the rights you are entitled to. There are a lot of straight couples out there verging on child abuse by having children they can't take care of, children that become 'victims of the system'. If a gay couple has decided to settle down and raise children, one would assume that they are conscious of the responsibility child rearing reqires. Adoption is long, emotional and expensive and if a couple can meet the criteria and provide a home for a child then sexual preferences should play no part in the deciding factor. Everyone must be evaluated the same way, gay or straight.

If that child can be loved, protected and guided by their parents and brought up in the spirit of tolerance and acceptance then I think we can feel that the rights of that child, which is everyones responsibility to uphold, have been met. Love is between people, not genders.


0 Points      kasia      20 Apr 2009      Stance on Question: Mostly Disagree
I agree that family with mother and father is a base for every community. Homosexuality is a sickness,this is against a human nature. If something is not normal how we can let those people adopt the children? They are not bad people. I know few gay and I like them but they shoudln't have any possibilty to adopt kids.


0 Points      Clive      21 Apr 2009      General Comment
Ok, there is a lot of fluff here. I'm not gay but there is more anger than fact in your answer. Homosexuality, sorry, is not a sickness. AIDS might be a sickness but homosexuality is not. And what's natural, well, lets let the dominant males make the children and the gays look after the children, no offence gay guys, you're top dudes.

You also say, you know a few gay and like them, nice one?



0 Points      Malcolm G      01 Feb 2009      Stance on Question: Agree
Yes, but they have to undergo the same screening as anyone else - criminal record; pedophilia; etc.